Tuesday, May 27, 2008

How many soul can enjoy their lives?


1000 ppl know what they dreams on.... But only 100 know how to act to archieve it.... and among this 100, only 10 ppl can stay focus on their dreams without losing their way in the journey to archieve it. Most people knows what are they dreams and goal in this small world, but how many of them really know what important most? Many of them lose their grab on the true goals they have in their mind when they faced problem in the middle of the journey to make their dream come true.. They eventually were destroying it instead of archieving it...

So my topic here is about money... Guess all of you knew what money is.. But how many actually realised the power of the money? It have the power to give happiness and at the same time to destroy your life... For what purpose we want to earn a lot of money? So that we can enjoy and have a better life in the future?? But what's your definition of "the future" ?? Is tomorrow also counted as the future? It is true that we need to earn money so that we can have a better life tomorrow, but many of us stray away from their true goals... Many actually throw away almost everything in order to reach maximum earning, including their friends, their loves one, and their family.. To them, as long as I got money, i can have friends... as long as I drive a good car, then girls will come to me.. then i can have my own happy family... But do you really sure that you can stop your habit when the time comes?? or do you even know when is the time to stop?? Unless you have a real damn good concentration in your mind (which most of us dont have), else you will end up never ever enjoy yourself until the end of your story on this earth...

So be focus on the true goal in front of u.. If you are focus enough, you even can start enjoying your life now... When you try to earn a big money so that you can improve your family life, but in the end, the process caused you to lose touch on the family matters, then whats the point? You trying to earn big money so that you can enjoy your life when you are in your 30s.. but the process caused you to lose all your friends, your love one, then whats the point? You are actually destroying what you work for.. I didnt said that trying our best to earn money is wrong, just that we should know how to balance it between our life.. between our goals and whats happening now.. We should know how to control our money instead of let the influence of money effect our daily life..

May be no one understand my post but at least I write out what i have in mind... Whether its useful to you or not, its all depends on how you digest it.. hehehe.. Many might said I still dont understand as I not yet felt the painful of life, and ask me to wait until i reach their age and then i will understand... But sorry guys, I have been listening to this even when im still a 16 years old young small youth... When you are in your 20s, you told me i wont understand before i felt it for myself.. But now im in my 20s d, I'm still living a happy life which denied your theories on the hardship everyone faced in this age.. I can be sure that even after i reach my 30s, I will stay the same.. The problem with those ppl are that they all too full of themserve and thought that they are the best and if they cant do it, no one can.. Well.. This kind of ppl destroyed a lot of youth in my time, but... there are few who survived it... It proved that the "impossible" they mentioned are actually possible. The life is at your own hand.. grab it or you lose it.. Its all depend on how you THINK... hahaha.. What's your call??



23 comments:

Anonymous said...

i'd call for McD delivery.

money = friend
no money = no friend
lots of money = lots of friend
lots of debt = altatunya

ok, tat was mean. but it was funny rite?

Roses said...

full of philosophies~~
to most difficult thing in life is to be contended and happy for it's human nature to be greedy!
keep it there alwite

JiNG said...

Nguong - No money = no friends.. true also.. but you sure Money = Friends?? and lots of money = lots of friend? haha.. may be the kind of friend you find is different.. or may be im too young to understand the fact of the world.. is it?? hehe.. hows ur mcd ??


Roses - Sometimes must take a time to write this kind of post so that I can have a time to think of something... But for this post, haha.. I get confused also by what i wrote.. kekekekke .. means i might not be firm about this decision.. :P

drumsticks said...

Jing.. ahha wait la when i earn my own money and tell you if i'm enjoying life and not sucked up by the money force..

JiNG said...

its very hard to explain.. some might not even understand wat i talk about.. but.. isnt its pointless if you lose ur balance in life, and destroy urself? So my point is, in the pursuit for money, please dont lose track of who you are.. else, ur life is just a flow of the earth... same standard as a sand on the beach...

Dragon City said...

Money is damn important.
No money = no car = walk to office?
No money = no house = stay under flyover?
Try to think about it... Earn more money now and retire at 40s and start enjoy ur life.

Anonymous said...

btw, eddy sure looks short. reminds me of the word 'stubby'.

*mean laugh*

BWAHAHAHAHAHA

*tat was meaningless unless he's reading tis.

JiNG said...

Bro - Looks like everyone misunderstand my point here.. nvm nvm... I didnt said earning money is wrong.. i didnt said dont go find money and go enjoy ur life.. I was saying, some ppl destroy their family in order to find money.. betray their love one in order to get money.. and last but not least, feeling down every moments because too stress of work.. will they survive until 40? what more left for them to enjoy at 40? money?

Again my point is... balance.. find money, but dont lose track..

John said...

Hi
Not sure whether you can still remember me. Saw your from Sarikei TIme Capsule, so just dropping by.

JiNG said...

john - oh... haha.. hi.. nice to see u here.. but dont really remember d.. hehe.. u saw me in sarikei capsule.. so means you also from sarikei? hehe

John said...

either i hv recognise wrong person or u forgot. i m from st. anthony as well.
john ting

JiNG said...

ohh.. john ting... i know u..hahahha.. how are u? hehe.. damn long never saw u d... i still saw sherman in kl last time.. before he go abroad..

Angel Valerie said...

gramps, u look so geng in the past... now not geng anymore coz u dont take care of ur grand-daughter here. muahaha!

JiNG said...

geng?? Not Yeng meh? wuaahhaha.. What lar.. u in sibu.. how to take care of u?? hehe

Angel Valerie said...

yes, hao yao yeng ah... muahahaha... sah u're my ah gong. hahaha... u should send some pocket money back to me since i said u so yao yeng ma.

Baba said...

Jing, u better be a COUNSELOR! Can earn 2-3-4 hundred buck every section of counseling! Don't be a SAP programmer ler even though SAP is stand for Solve All Problem....Be like ur brother ler....he got all now...family, car, house... an one more thing, tel ur brother if no house, you can stay in his house la.
L0L!

Alice said...

weiiii the pictures remind me of a lot of memories la. Damn emo now how. I understand perfectly what u are trying to say. Hehe

JiNG said...

Angel - wuhahahah.. so easy to earn money meh... praise me then can get money d? then i mah very rugi lor.. go earn urself lar... :P

Baba - lol..... SAP = Selalu Ada Problem lar... hahhaha.. ''

Alice - what la u... oh.. ya hor.. in that picture, u still with tat watak utama oo.. u makes me a liar that time, i haven get anything from u yet.. should belanja me makan larrr.. for making an innocent kids lying.. sob sob.. haha

Alice said...

oi oi oi apek, not my bithday ho. Dont cincai say la. I still remember I wore red t-shirt on my birthday leh. That was eddy's birthday la... where got ppl cut my cake if that was my birthday wor?? =.= ngok..

JiNG said...

oi oi oi ..when did i said its ur birthday.. ah mu... i said u still with the watak utama lar.. haha.. and u ask me to lie him.. ei... no ar.. salah d.. hahahhaa.. its eddy ask me to lie to u.. on ur birthday.. so paiseh.. ahhahah

Janice Stone said...

just one thing... you were so skinny back when you were young, kakakaka

suituapui said...

I agree 100% with ur views on money! I was a non-grad, my salary smaller than many others (who sat goyang kaki)...but I earned enough to live comfortably and do things I wanted to do and I derived a lot of satisfaction from my job and I had time for my family and friends. Be thankful and contented for whatever small blessings we may get. Happiness is something all the money in the world cannot buy!

JiNG said...

Janice - lol.... what skinny?? not yeng meh?? see me in the uniform.. not yeng ar?? hahahaha

Suituapui - KEKEKEKE.. Thats exactly what i mean.. some may have bigger dreams so they go and chase it, but when the time comes, they forget the precious things around them... i could say they are lost.. :P